8 things to keep in mind when bad things occur

Life is a cycle of events , some can be good others can be bad . In life we learn that happiness is not a life with no problems but the capability to deal with them . Just imagine all the great things that your mind can have if you gave it a chance . Always look to what you have instead of what you don't .
and to help you here are some things to keep in mind .

1. Pain is part of growing

Sometimes life closes all the doors in front of us because it is time to move on . And it is a good thing , because most of the time we like our comfort zone and we star in it a lot . When thing get harder and herder , remind yourself that without pain there is no gain . Move and grow up .
Remember there are 2 types of pain ; One that hurts and one that changes you , either way you should not resist life when you get there it will help you grow if you learn how to go with the flow .

2.Everything in life is temporary

Rain starts and stops , get cut in a place and it will heal . There is light after the darkness , you might find yourself forgetting this and instead you chose to believe that the night is eternal . Remember this nothing lasts forever .
If your life is going fine congrats , but it will not last , and if things goes down the hill , believe me when I say it will stop eventually . Just because you are down , that doesn't mean you can not enjoy yourself , believe in second chances and make life what you want .

3. Complaining does not change a thing

It is better to try a great thing and fail at it rather than doing nothing and complaining all the time , a fail is not the end of the road , it is a lesson that you must learn . I remember when I was younger I started a teaching channel on Youtube , we had 100 to 1000 views on each video lately our least viewed video is around 35K , why you might ask , it is because we learned our lesson and so will you when you get down , get up .

4. Your scars are your badge of honor

Do not be embarrassed or ashamed of your past , life is a cycle of experiences some of them are good , others not so much . A scar is an experience , it means you got hurt and the pain is gone now . You cannot hide your scars but you can change the way you look at them . "What does not kill you , makes you stronger"

5.Every small step , is a step forward

Patience is the key to everything in this life , It is not by waiting instead it is about holding your spot and working hard to achieve what you want . You might lose control from time to time , you might lose relations , friends , .... remember all the great people have struggled in a time or another along the way they took so hang in there buddy , life is about to become better.

6.Negative people are your enemies

Be positive and surround yourself with positive people . Negative people in your life will try to bring you down , only because they can not get up . You might have a friend who smokes or drinks and when they see that you do not do any of that , he might try to convince you to do it sometime , that way he can share his negativity with you , stay away from people like this .

7.What you want is what you will get eventually

True force comes when life is hard and you just want to sit down and cry your hear out , but instead you chose to stand up against all and smile. Instead of being a small crying baby because he did not get what he wanted for Christmas you chose to take life to a challenge , that is true force my friend and that how you should be .

8. Move on

Do not be afraid of trying new things each time , life is an experience and living 60 years afraid of what could have happend , what would happen if , and what might have happen is one bad life . Focus on moving on , in love , in jobs , in life...



Work Hard do not give up and success will become your ally .